Women's Elusive Stories -- Laura Barber
A woman with a washing machine like the one in this 1866 ad probably felt fortunate. She was expected to confine all her interests to her home and family. Why don’t I write more stories about women ancestors? I know they led lives as full and interesting as men’s lives. The people I write about are people I can find information about - information beyond census records and (when available), birth, marriage and death records. Even today, most of us, men and women, don’t make the news very often, if at all. But women in Victorian and Edwardian days were supposed to be “invisible,” to “disappear” behind a man. This was her proper role in the prevailing Cult of Domesticity and “Separate spheres” theory that people believed was handed down by God. A woman was supposed to stay home, to make no waves, to be retiring, passive, demure, totally devoted to home and family, with no outside interests, though promotion of Christianity was a given. Wo...